Blow Job 101

Let's talk blow jobs. The long and the hard of it (pun intended.)

The act of performing oral sex can seem intimidating and there are several myths surrounding fellatio; the penis is dirty, only "dirty girls" give blow jobs, and it's going to make me gag! These are [somewhat] false. If your man showers then his penis is probably quite clean. God invented oral sex to be enjoyed within marriage. And it isn't a "dirty" act but rather a fun gift for a wife to give her hubby! As far as gagging goes. . . the truth is, you probably will gag, but only the first couple times. The more you do it, the better you will be at navigating how far back the penis can go in your mouth.

"I'd love to go down on my husband but I don't know how and don't want to feel stupid!"

If this is your concern, remember this -- your husband loves you and would thrilled to help you become a pro ;) Here are a few tips to help you begin.

1. Get it wet
Use saliva, a water based lube, or coconut oil. Don't be afraid of being "messy" or "sloppy." The wetter the better.

2. Cover your teeth!
Wrap your lips around those pearly whites to ensure you don't scrape his penis with them.

3. Use suction
Create a suction around the tip of his penis with your lips. Slide your mouth forward an inch or two past the frenulum (the spot where the head meets the shaft) and then reverse back to the tip. Repeat, repeat, repeat.

Want more oral sex tips and variations? We talk a lot about it on this weeks podcast! We also discuss the stigmas surrounding fellatio and hope to offer some encouragement and new perspectives for the women who might be nervous to try.